"Pisanthrophobia"
Fear of trusting.
TRUST
* It is earned.
* It should be proven.
* It requires time.
* It should be reciprocal.
* It is simply about having faith.
It takes a lot of bravery to trust someone. Risk is also included in the process. You have to embrace the possibility that they might hurt you unknowingly or intentionally. The question that will only matter is, "Are they worth the risk? or are they even worth the pain?". The best way to deal with it is to cushion our hearts. No more, no less.
Forgive yourself if you still can't trust someone after a bad break up. Being numb is quite a natural thing that happens after the pain. It will only last for a while and after that, you'll be ready to feel again. All you have to do is to take time in appreciating all the little things and simple acts of kindness from everyone around you. With this, you will never feel that there's something missing.
Thanks! God bless!:)
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